The news that you will soon be a parent can bring unexpected emotions. You may have mixed feelings about pregnancy. You may feel joy and excitement about becoming a parent. At the same time, you may wonder if you can meet the financial and emotional responsibilities of raising a child. You may be concerned about how pregnancy and a child will change your life and your relationship with your partner, including your sexual relationship. New fathers may also feel unsure of their role during birth and as a father in general .
These feelings are normal. Being honest with yourself and talking openly with your partner about your concerns can help you come to terms with emotions.

It is also normal during pregnancy for the prospective parents to focus on issues that did not seem important before. Separately, you may both think about your own relationship, childhood, relationships with your parents, and hopes for your future family.